“Lollipop Moments” and Everyday Leadership!

Coin Drive 2017_1By Reed Gabhart, Head of Goshen Campus, and Shelly Jones, Middle School Dean of Students

As you may have heard from your children by now, it’s been a truly positive start to the 2017-18 school year! The overall vibe on both sides of the building is one of joy and happiness at being back in school.

However, juxtaposed with our good fortune is the fate of so many in Texas who are enduring the horrible aftermath of Hurricane Harvey. And true to their Wyvern character, our kids were not content with just asking their parents to donate to the Red Cross. So this week we’ve had a coin drive organized by the We Act Club in which everyone has been asked to scour their houses and cars for loose change to bring to school. The We Act kids are rolling the coins and have a grand goal of raising $2,000 together with the High School We Act group (who are sponsoring Penny Wars there) by the end of the week to make their own mark on this terrible situation. Here’s some more from Middle School Dean of Students and We Act Club Sponsor Shelly Jones:

Last week during advisory time, our Middle School students watched a TED-x talk about “Everyday Leadership.” In it, educator Drew Dudley defines what he calls a “lollipop moment,” or a small moment when an everyday person says or does something that fundamentally makes someone else’s life better. (For a deeper appreciation of the lollipop reference and to facilitate a conversation with your middle schooler, feel free to watch the TED talk here.) The point of the talk is that we don’t have to be leaders with a capital “L,” or some grand, extraordinary individuals, to make a difference in someone’s life. Instead, he says we need to redefine leadership as an opportunity to help individual people, in small moments, in our ordinary daily lives. Dudley explains, “We need to redefine leadership as being about lollipop moments – how many of them we create, how many we acknowledge, how many of them we pay forward and how many we say thank you for. Because we’ve made leadership about changing the world, and there is no world. There’s only six billion understandings of it.”

Our Middle School We Act Club is hard at work, already, leading through such lollipop moments and creating opportunities for individuals to help individuals. As Reed said, in response to the flooding in Texas, our WE Act Groups on both Campuses sponsored a coin drive to donate to disaster relief efforts. Students cleaned out their family vehicles, closets, sofa cushions, and piggy banks to find spare change to donate. Some students, like 5th graders Caroline and Parker McCurry, even sold lemonade over the Labor Day weekend to raise funds.

Another upcoming opportunity for individuals to get involved in helping others is by participating in the My School Color Run on September 23rd. Early bird registration ends today, so please sign up here. Our Middle School We Act group heard from SFS Parent Stephanie Mutchnik about the opportunity to partner with the Offin Children’s Center, an orphanage and education center, in Offinso, Ghana. All proceeds from the My School Color Run will go to support the OCC, and our students will begin the work of creating a cultural exchange with the students and residents at the Center. More lollipop moments, or opportunities for everyday leadership and change-making, this time made possible by a parent in our School community!

What a wonderfully committed group of kids who have their hearts and minds in the right place! Their energy and drive reminded me to dig through my own change piles on Labor Day weekend to bring in a baggie full of coins. And who knows, with Hurricane Irma now looming off the Eastern seaboard, we may need round two next week, sadly. I’m sure our kids will come through and make us proud!